Ask An Older Man · One-to-One

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With Paul

No script. No sales pitch. Just an honest read on where you actually stand, from someone who has watched enough of this play out to know what he's looking at.

20+ Years Married · Author of Two Relationship Books · A YouTube Audience Built on Straight Talk
Who You're Talking To

Why book time with me

I've spent decades watching relationships, money, and life play out, in my own and in the people who've come to me for a straight answer. I've been married for over 20 years. I've written two books on what actually makes relationships work, one for men, one for women.

None of that makes me a therapist, and I won't pretend otherwise. What I can offer is an honest, direct read on your situation, the kind of thing most people are too polite, too scared, or too paid to tell you.

"A straight answer, given once, is worth more than a soft one repeated for months."
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Choose your session

Both options are a real one-to-one conversation with Paul. Pick the length that fits what you're working through.

30-Minute Chat
$75
For one clear question. A specific situation, a decision you're stuck on, or a gut check before you do something you can't take back.
  • One focused topic
  • Direct, no-fluff feedback
  • Real time with Paul, not a template
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The Process

How it works

1

Choose & pay

Pick your session length above and pay securely through the same checkout as everything else on this site.

2

Pick a time

Times are shown in your own time zone. You'll only see the slots that are actually open on Paul's calendar.

3

Show up

You'll get a calendar invite with everything you need to join, straight to your inbox.

Before You Book

A few things worth knowing

What time zone are the times shown in?+
Your own. The booking calendar detects your local time zone automatically, and only shows you the slots that are actually open on Paul's calendar.
How do I actually join the chat?+
Chats happen over Zoom. A meeting link is created automatically and sent with your calendar invite as soon as your session is confirmed. Nothing to install ahead of time.
What happens if I miss the chat?+
Sessions are paid in advance, and the fee isn't refunded for a missed chat or a late cancellation. If something genuinely comes up, message Paul directly, he reviews these individually.
Can I reschedule?+
Reach out to Paul directly and he'll do what he can, but rescheduling isn't guaranteed once a slot is booked.

Say what's actually going on.
Get a straight answer back.

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